The Mercado Family



Sunday, February 23, 2025

Frozen Over

 It's been a while since we had a good winter here. We had one snowstorm last year and not many the previous few years.  I know it's weird, but I definitely missed the good snow. My kids did too.

As I said in my previous post, we had a snow day the day before our midwinter break,  so we had 5 days off, including the weekend. Church was canceled for the morning wards because another snowstorm came through Sunday morning.

I took Austin and Erik sledding with friends on Thursday. Erik and I went again with different friends on Friday and Austin and Erik went on Saturday with friends.  That time I didn't go and the other two days I went snowshoeing because I'm not interested in sledding anymore.  I enjoyed my 2 days snowshoeing and was happy they could sled again on Saturday.  Sunday, they built a snow fort with Kade. It's been a really long time since they could do that and they were so happy about it. Austin and Erik were very young the last time my kids did it. This time I didn't have to help them and they could use the ice scraper to help. Double bonus!

Monday I took them skiing/snowboarding.  Jason had to work, but we just went an hour away.  I opted to snowshoe again at a nearby state park. It was President's Day, so prices were higher and Kade wanted to take a snowboard lesson. I really enjoyed my snow hike and then reading/watching stuff in the lodge while they went down the slopes.  It was probably good I didn't go up on the mountain that day because they said it felt colder than the last time when I got brain freezes! Erik's cheeks were very red despite his whole face being covered.  My cheeks were red too, but I was working harder than I would have been on the slopes,  so I was warm. And then I was done and in the lodge!

When we finally made it back to school the weather was still too cold to go out according to school policy for temps. Finally, on Friday, we could play outside at Red Bell. My students really enjoyed the little sled hill we have. I really enjoyed not having another indoor recess!

Day 1 of sledding. That big blob of kids is Erik, Austin, and their friends!



It was a successful run down!

We still ended up at the frozen lake, now that we know about it!

The snow fort!


My teens fit nicely in it!



On my snowshoeing adventure!




Warming up after skiing!

The cats were very invested in this bunny!


Sunday, February 16, 2025

Valentine's Day

 The kids had no school this past Valentine's Day, which meant I didn't have to go to work. It's mid-winter break, so there's no school Monday either. We also had an additional day of no school on Thursday because of a snowstorm, so it's a five-day weekend!

Since Jason and I are preparing for a big trip to Chile in March, we had a very low-key, casual celebration. And since it has been a very snowy weekend, plus lots of friends have been over, Valentine's Day itself was just a side to all the excitement. 

I gave candy gifts to my kids, made heart brownies, and a shrimp pasta dish (heart-shaped pasta for Erik). Jason and I exchanged cards and I gave him some chocolates. He gifted me with my favorite chocolate-covered strawberries and flowers. We sent a card to Victoria and gave her other various necessary items. 

Jason and I used a gift card to go out to eat and enjoyed that. I was glad he was here to celebrate with me. He was going to be in Idaho to watch Victoria's dance performance which was on the 12th and 13th, but the plane tickets were pretty steep and we're in the midst of financing our trip to Chile. So, we opted for him to stay here instead. 

Grandma Pat and Grandpa Jim drove up to see her dance and brought her a little Valentine. 

We have spent a lot of time in the snow the past couple of days, and we'll get more tomorrow when we hit the slopes again to make up for when Austin and Kade missed it last time, but we're always happy to set aside some time to celebrate Valentine's Day!

My Valentine!

Kade made cake pops- the best he's ever made!

After Victoria's performance!

She had a fun Valentine's date too!



Sunday, February 2, 2025

Red Bell Preschool


This is where I work. For me, it is the best job ever! I only work 4 1/2 hours a day, I get weekends, summers, and days off when my kids have off. I have minimal prep and the classes I have to take online to keep me current and up-to-date as a certified preschool teacher are easy and paid for by my employer. They train me to renew my CPR and First Aid certificate each year, so I'm always current, which makes me feel good knowing I could help someone in an emergency.

I have worked here for 8 years now and I am not tired of it. I love going in each morning to the smiling faces of children who love me as their teacher. I get excited to teach them new concepts and skills. Best of all, I love that I can put behind me all my worries over my personal life (life's full of worries when you have kids, especially teens!). It really is helpful to know that part of my job is putting on a good face for these kids and showing them love, no matter what else may be occurring outside of Red Bell. 

This year I have had some bigger "challenges" at school. Such as at the beginning of the year when we had to handle the situation with a student telling his friends about the gun at his house. That was a little disconcerting. His parents chose to remove him from our school after all the conversations with Red Bell's owner and the police. Also, this year I have had to be more proactive in setting boundaries over the kids' conversations about bodily functions and body parts that aren't appropriate for 4-year-olds to be discussing so many times! It had been getting out of hand, so I've had to tell them that they can save those conversations for their homes. Some of them get out of control with laughter about it. My mom side thinks it's kind of funny and wants to just roll my eyes and move on, but my teacher side knows that if they can't learn about things that are appropriate to say and not to say now, then they might have a problem with it later. 

Then there's the issue of showing body parts. Yes, one kid mooned his friends in the reading loft. I had to call his parents and send notes home to the parents of the kids who witnessed it. The same kid showed his front side to a friend under the table at lunch. We took a bit stronger action on this one. I have met with his parents in person now, and things are looking up. 

The thing is for me, these kids who act up like this are no more or less my favorites. I love them all and know I need to word things differently or change things up to help with the kids who are acting up.

The biggest blow this year was that my assistant, who I have had since the fall of 2020, has left. She took off for the month of November to help her elderly family members in Canada. My bosses don't usually do that, but she assured them that she was coming back. She did come back for December and January, but then she wanted to put her 2 weeks' notice in at the end of January. She told me that she was having a hard time putting on a good face for the students and then being overwhelmed with her life when she was off work. I get it, but I was sad to see her go. However, the main boss wasn't happy with that because she had promised to return, which she did, but the end of the school year would have been better. At any rate, he told her she would have one more day and not two weeks. So it was kind of abrupt. 

On Monday, my new assistant, who happens to be my good friend Karyn Kish and was the sub who was in my class in November, jumped right in. I was a little nervous about the flow of things just because Adriana and I had worked for so long together and she has her Early Childhood Associates Degree. I was also nervous because I was supposed to go to Jury Duty on Tuesday, after only one day of having Karyn there. The last stressor was that it was the first week of Parent/ Teacher conferences and I had some things to gather for that. Needless to say, it was the most stressed I have ever been with this job!

By some miracle, I didn't have to go in for Jury Duty, which was even more of a miracle because we had a couple of sick teachers at the beginning of the week and we now have no subs. When I found out I didn't have to go to Jury Duty on Tuesday, it took a major load off me!

The rest of the week went very smoothly. Karyn learned a lot in 5 days. When she subbed in November, I didn't teach her all the ropes, but she knows them now! She was even able to manage the class during choice time while I slipped out for some Parent/Teacher conferences. 

While I definitely miss Adriana, I'm happy my friend Karyn can work with me now. And I still love my job!